The Best Defender With All the Qualities You Desire In One Is Known as 'GAMARRA'. He is Paraguayian and he plays for AEK But Wait until He has finished his Loan deal at Flamengo which Mid-season for around 6.5M.
:D GAMARRA

I'll go for Mike Duff in Chelternham in England. Play this guy in a top club. Average rating >8 almost every season. This guy can win a European Defender of the year.