How to talk to girls you are in love with?

Originally posted by chatterbox
I haven't had a date in my life. When I see a chick I know I say Yo what's up ! She smiles and looks at her friend and they both laugh and point and then walk towards some other guys and start gossiping about me!

I can't even get a chick to come up to me and talk to me....any advice? I' ve tried everything....not thinking about chicks, not looking at them, not thinking of them at night, pretending that I did not see them as I walk by them, walking down a different hallway to avoid direct contact with their eyes..nothing works ! You know I would just want a chick that could walk up to me and give me a huge hug....oh I can just imagine it now, I would run my fingers through her hair and press her up tightly against me....damn no one ever does that ! Why? Why? Why? Why aren't things involving chicks that easy for me?

Oh yeah soemtimes when they laugh when talking to me(which hardly ever happens), they are usually laughing at something stupid I did or said...not laughing with me ...I get the feeling that everything that I do to impress them is stupid.

Oh yeah one more thing, I have never and will never smoke Carlos-sh-t ! And Fire Prevention week has now got my picture on its banner as I am now declared as that week' s official sponsor.

Oh my gooseness, I thought that chicks were gullible posting stuff about relationships......what is this a couselling service of some kind? OH wait , who am I to say that? Sincere regrets....I still need help with chicks....so I guess I am gullible now...too bad for me ! IS TOO LATE FOR ME AND CHICKS !

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are you really serious about this? wow thats sad if ur serious. i can try to give u some advice just stop by my office...or i can actually help u here.

post ur pic, and we will analyze ur problem

that guy is a fucking lunitic.

i'm pretty sure he's takin the piss lol

"....oh I can just imagine it now, I would run my fingers through her hair and press her up tightly against me....damn no one ever does that !"

that gives it away since everyone does that

Originally posted by MastaLFC


that gives it away since everyone does that

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not to him, they dont

oooh.... i see it now.... heh you're right...

this feels gay, but what the hell?

there's a chick i like... were good friends, we chill a lot, flirt and all that ****... i love every thing about her from looks to personality but for some reason I don't think she wants to be more than friends, I dunno, I get mixed signals from her... maybe some people would, but if she turned me down i wouldn't wanna be around her anymore so yea the question is how do I find out what she thinks without having to ask straight up

Originally posted by PScott
not to him, they dont

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obviously. seriously either he so such a sad organism that he cant even have a girlfriend to say hi to or hes a little bit less of a loser trying to get attention in a forum full of strangers.

I think Giggs Rox fused with anas somehow to make him.

Originally posted by MastaLFC
oooh.... i see it now.... heh you're right...

this feels gay, but what the hell?

there's a chick i like... were good friends, we chill a lot, flirt and all that ****... i love every thing about her from looks to personality but for some reason I don't think she wants to be more than friends, I dunno, I get mixed signals from her... maybe some people would, but if she turned me down i wouldn't wanna be around her anymore so yea the question is how do I find out what she thinks without having to ask straight up

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in my opinion not that im a expert but if shes a tight friend dont go for it unless ur 100% sure. because sometimes girl friends can be good friends and also can hook you up with good looking girls. and if u ask and she says no then you will have this awkward thing happening and stuff. trust me its not nice.

no man, i want to marry her ()

she's perfect!

no seriously, she's everything i look for in a girl from head to toes including brains and the "inside" stuff.... corny as hell, but well...

Originally posted by MastaLFC
no man, i want to marry her

she's perfect!

no seriously, she's everything i look for in a girl from head to toes including brains and the "inside" stuff.... corny as hell, but well...

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if you really mean that then dont miss it. but i wouldnt be worrying about all that if i were still in high school. go and have fun kader you will find plent of those brains and beauty in college.

Originally posted by MastaLFC
oooh.... i see it now.... heh you're right...

this feels gay, but what the hell?

there's a chick i like... were good friends, we chill a lot, flirt and all that ****... i love every thing about her from looks to personality but for some reason I don't think she wants to be more than friends, I dunno, I get mixed signals from her... maybe some people would, but if she turned me down i wouldn't wanna be around her anymore so yea the question is how do I find out what she thinks without having to ask straight up

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yeah im in the same boat...although im taking this girl out to my sis' play this sat...like shes a fantastic friend, and she does that mixed signals shit

i think u should try and get it out of her subtlely, like say talk to her bout whos shes interested in. it might end up hurting, but u could also get hints dropped from her that she needs u...

I was thinkin about gettin another girl I trust to ask *her "I heard rumors you're going out with Kader" (which is true btw, basically everyone thinks we are ) and then if *she says no, she'd ask "well do you like him tho" or somethin like that....

and there's this girl who said she could hook me up with *her... she's amazing, she's hooked up like so many couples where it seemed like it would just never work but i said "nah, thanks".... i just think *shes the type that either likes a guy or doesnt and no one can change it...

And then this other girl told me that *she has a weird taste and likes ugly boys so *she'll probably never like me, but i dunno if its true or a weird way of complimenting

Oh and another thing... we're doing this Secret Santa gay thing among our group where we randomly (supposedly) get people assigned to buy gifts for... and i actually got *her which I think is a set up of some kind Out of like 12 people I get *her.... What's a good present I could get *her btw?

very wierd way of complimenting...personally i dont like gettin other ppl to do it unless the person doing it is like my best mate, coz u dont know what theyll talk about. and u also dont know whether theyll keep somethin to themselves, or start this conspiracy behind ur back...lol tad paranoid there...

my best friend asked *her out last year and she said no to him

So i dont think i can get him to do it for me and he always tells me what "this and that chick" said about me (good things) and I think he adds a lil flavor to it Coz some of the girls I dont even talk to and he tells me how they think im hot and wanna give me head and **** like that..... Yea he's one of those people who like to spice things up for no reason....

Originally posted by i_am_budge
very wierd way of complimenting...personally i dont like gettin other ppl to do it unless the person doing it is like my best mate, coz u dont know what theyll talk about. and u also dont know whether theyll keep somethin to themselves, or start this conspiracy behind ur back...lol tad paranoid there...

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Thats only if a guy is doing the hooking up. Females take pride in their work though, and most likely wouldn't screw you over. If the they end up hooking up, the girl will probly tell anyone who listens that it was all because of her.

If its a dude though, that can backfire. And someone will always get their face blown off.

Originally posted by MastaLFC
my best friend asked *her out last year and she said no to him

So i dont think i can get him to do it for me and he always tells me what "this and that chick" said about me (good things) and I think he adds a lil flavor to it Coz some of the girls I dont even talk to and he tells me how they think im hot and wanna give me head and **** like that..... Yea he's one of those people who like to spice things up for no reason....

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Mainland Chicks are so easy!!! So FVCKING EASY.

They are... but is that supposed to mean he's sayin the truth?

If half of it is then I've missed quite a few pleasureable moments

fernandez.. wait till when u're sec4, then when u're at the prom, approach her for a dance, walk home together with her till 7 in the morning, and y'all set.

Here's some good tips gentlemen:

- Try not to analyse all the signs, every girl is different and there are no set of rules for signals.
- Be confident, it's like dogs smelling fear, women smell a lack of confidence.
- Everyone gets nervous when asking a woman out or chatting one up, the better men cover their nervousnes; that's what you need to work on.
- Be nice and genuine, in other words don't try and be someone you're not; it will only backfire later on, if you do happen to hook up.
- Smile and don't keep thinking to yourself "damn I look silly smiling".
- You may be scared of rejections, however there can be no success without failure. Think of the reward if you are successful in asking a girl out, there are not many better things than knowing you've just succeeded in asking a girl out.
- Control your tongue; by this I mean, don't say silly things and stammer and mainly don't lie, it's another thing that will backfire on you.
- Be confident in yourself and not only the situation, by this I mean have faith in your own ability to go through with talking and asking a girl out.
- Initiating the conversation is half the battle, get over this and you should be fine; you'll be amazed with yourself sometimes.
- Be calm and don't panic or freak out.

This are just some tips from the Casanova himself, Gareth from Down Under... peace out.