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Chas Denonno - A Referee's Journey

Psyatika

Reserve Team
8 March 2006
Two nights ago i decided it's finally warm enough to start going to the field a couple blocks from my dorm to kick the ball around and get some running in. I stayed out for 30 minutes the first night, 45 last night, and tonight i'm not sure how long i was out, but it had to be at least an hour but fewer than 90 minutes.

The field is currently converted to a baseball field and a softball field (on opposite corners of the pitch). Which means i have to deal with the dirt infields, but also means that i have overhanging batting cages (these are made of elastic netting rather than metal) to practise goals kicks and punts, and i can go around to the back and practise headers as well. Now, i know what you're thinking...headers?! Well, i need to practise football skills to get myself to actually do the running, or else i get bored. Tonight was a little more fitness-based anyway.

I decided i would try to do a long distance run. I've never done one before. I've played in football matches, i've officiated 3 and 4 matches in a row without feeling tired, but i've never done an endurance run. So i simulated the USSF fitness test for myself tonight. I measured the field to be 115 metres by 65 metres. So just to be safe, i called it 110 and 60. Once around the field is thus 340 metres. I figured eight times around the field would be a fair estimate of the USSF endurance run (8 x 340 = 2720 metres; the USSF requirement is 2200 metres for state referees, which i don't have to worry about until at least next year), and it would allow me to take some liberties and make safe, gradual turns rather than try to cut 90 degrees.

To estimate the 200m run, i ran from one end of the pitch to the other, turned around, and ran back. It's more than 200 metres, plus the fact that i had to stop to turn, but i figured it's better than underestimating and under-preparing.

To estimate the 50m run, i simply started counting out 50 metres. Then i remembered: the girls softball team uses a 200 foot distance for home runs. So i simply used the foul ball line and ran to home plate, which is actually more like 65 metres.

Well, i did the tests in that order (endurance run, then 200 metre run, then 50 metre run last), and i discovered two things that really i already knew:

1) I'm very fast. VERY fast.
2) I hate distance running!

I guess to establish street cred or whatever, i'll give you the results of my sprints first:
200 metre run: USSF requirement: 40 seconds. My time: 38 seconds.
Again, my run was more like 230 metres, and i had to turn 180 degrees half way. I was actually still tired from the damn endurance run, and ended up jogging the last 20 metres or so, but i still beat the USSF time by 2 seconds. This may look like bragging, but you haven't seen my endurance run yet

50 metre run: USSF requirement: 9 seconds. My time: 8 seconds.
Keep in mind this run was actually 200 feet, and it was still in 8 seconds.

Well, now that you have the good news, i'll talk about the endurance run. I am a terrible distance runner! I can easily do 4 full matches in a row, running the whole time, but ask me to just jog for 12 minutes, and i cry like a little girl (actually, i'm being harsh to little girls!).

Anyway, three laps in (remember, i need to run 8 laps, and the USSF requirement is 12 minutes), i am beyond winded, but i keep running because i'm actually still making decent pace. First lap was in just under 90 seconds, second lap was a little over 90 seconds. But this third lap killed me; my back was sore and i was breathing very heavily. I decided that i would keep running and finish the course no matter what, and even if i had to walk the last lap.

I've never tried running this far all at once before, so apparently that third lap would be known as "hitting a wall" or something like that. By lap 5, i actually felt quite good. My back soreness was gone, and my breathing was back to normal. I looked at my watch...over 9 minutes gone. Since i felt good, i figured i'd pick up the pace and give a respectable time. Unfortunately, the muscle near my right shin was having none of it, and let me know about it. It's still sore as i write this, 4 hours later. So rather than pick up the pace, i jogged to feel comfortable. I'm just glad i finished the 8 laps. My time: 18:36. Yeah, i know...

Anyway, i'm sure if i keep at it, i can get my endurance run time down. I'm just not used to running that far without a ball or a whistle or just generally something to distract me from thinking about the running. At least i have something to build upon...
 

Klobb

Starting XI
Heh, yeh ive never really liked any sort of running w/o a point (to a ball, to a tackle, to pummel an unassuming young adolescent)
 

Psyatika

Reserve Team
17 March 2006
Finally got word from West Side Soccer. The matches will be on Sundays. So i agreed to stay with them and do a maximum of one Centre per week, but i'll probably get mostly AR assignments. Most of my refereeing, then, will be with Brooklyn AYSO's U19 Girls Division.

I also received word from Rutgers that they would like me to continue work with the Intramural League. I decided to be a little more creative with the website this year, and i think it looks pretty good. See for yourself.

I'm getting better with my long distance runs. However my right leg still gets very sore very quickly, making it hard to run for extended periods. Hopefully i'll fully recover soon.
 

Psyatika

Reserve Team
21 March 2006
Just got the assignments for West Side Soccer. 30 matches in total, and 6 referees, so getting 6 centre assignments is about right. I was also given 6 AR assignments, but i volunteered to take two more to fill in gaps on a day where i wasn't assigned any matches, for a total of 8. They respected my request to not give me any morning centres (i'm travelling from New Jersey to 114th street in Manhattan), and to give me exactly two matches whenever i'm assigned on a given day. There is one open centre spot with two ARs assigned on May 15th, and i'm tempted to take it, but it's the morning game and i have the next centre and then an AR assignment. Normally that would be alright, but i will have my Brooklyn AYSO U19 matches the day before, so maybe not.

Brooklyn's schedules aren't out yet. I plan on doing at least one centre and one AR each week for them, regardless of age groups, and two centres on days where i don't have West Side Soccer matches the next day. (WSSL was nice enough to give me 3 weekends where i don't have to travel at all). I'm definitely looking forward to it all...hasn't hit me yet that it's less than a fortnight away!
 

Psyatika

Reserve Team
Yikes...way too many games in the last couple weeks, and not enough time to write about them. Well, now i have some time, so let's see...

27 March 2006
Opening night for the Rutgers Intramural Soccer League. Eight teams composed of angry college students and alumni (mostly students). And one referee :)

I was given an "assistant" referee. He's not a licenced referee, but he's there to help, and i can't complain about that. Problem is, he carries a whistle, and tries to use it! I instructed him not to blow the whistle at any point, using the reasoning that my whistle is official, and i'd hate to have to overrule his decision and cause chaos where the players are concerned. I asked him to carry a flag, but he declined. This was a bad idea, because i can't really tell what he's signalling without the flag in his hands, aside from who gets the restart when the ball goes into touch.

Fortunately, opening night went fairly well, and the only times my assistant blew his whistle (...) were times when the ball quickly came back onto the field after going out, or for something for which i simultaneously blew the whistle. One of the teams didn't show up for their match, so i only did three games and just watched while the team that did show up played a practise match against whomever was willing to play them.

In the first match, the players on one of the teams kept trying to lobby for getting their opponents booked. I just ignored it today, but i plan to give pre-match warnings to players about sporting conduct for the next matches.

29 March 2006
Matchday 2 of the Rutgers Intramural Soccer League. I gave my pre-match talk to each team, so hopefully nothing stupid will happen. The matches went well once again; i'm definitely about 1308471405614 times better of a referee than i was last year! The final match was quite interesting...

Blue v. Red (the teams have names, but for simplicitiy's sake we'll go with colours). 1-1 and just about to begin stoppage time. Blue player dribbles into the penalty area. For some bizarre reason, a Red defender has the belief that referees are not allowed to call PKs in stoppage time. He puts his hand, arm bent, on the Blue player's shoulder and SHOVES him off the ball, fully extending his arm. He left me no choice. I pointed to the spot.

Queue over 40 seconds of complaining. The complaints, to my credit (i guess) were all along the lines of, "you can't call a penalty this late in the game!" The player who made the push even admitted he pushed his opponent, but still asserted that i can't make such a drastic call this late in the game. Maybe i'm crazy, but i could have sworn that a foul is a foul, whether it occurred in the first minute, the last minute, or any minute in between. Apparently i missed the referee courses that the Red team took prior to this match...

Anyway, PK converted, 2-1. Red gets the kickoff and fights for an eqaliser. They ultimately get a corner kick, and score with an own-goal to equalise. They feel justice has been served. I honestly don't care. Final score 2-2.

I still have many more matches to post. Watch this space.

Career Appearances:
-Referee: 111
-Assistant: 38
 

Psyatika

Reserve Team
One little thing i forgot to mention about my first game in the Rutgers league...about one minute in, the guy i had sent off in the final match last year performed the most ridiculous looking dive ever: he threw his arms into the air, let out a bit of a yell, and went to the ground. It was the first match of the entire tournament, just a minute in, but i probably should have cautioned him. Instead i just told him to get up and play went on. I need to work on not being lenient on league opening days...

2 April 2006
Opening day of the AYSO season in Manhattan. Before this match, i was watching an EPL match on Fox Soccer Channel. I don't remember who was playing...might have been the Chelsea match. Anyway, usually i find myself watching the referee during professional matches, getting tips on positioning, when to talk to the players, etc. This morning, however, i noticed something which might have a huge effect on my officiating.

The referee looked like he was moving in slow motion the entire match. He was taking long strides, his back foot would go above the knee before swinging forward...it was an extremely flowing form of running. He made it look so easy. I decided that from now on, i'm going to run like that.

As it turns out, i honestly had no clue how to run! Trying to emulate the EPL referee's running style was a huge success! At no point in my match did i have to sprint; i ran the same speed throughout the match (i would run a little faster every so often, but rather than change the way i run to get into my usual sprint, i just ran the same way i had been running, just increasing the pace of the same mechanics). I felt exactly the same at the end of the match than i did at the beginning...no soreness, wasn't winded, anything. Maybe there's hope for me yet on the fitness test! I can't wait to time myself again.

Anyway, nothing of note happened in the match. I had one more match afterward as an AR, which also went smoothly. WSSL has no more matches for me until 30 April, because i asked for next week off for opening day of Brooklyn AYSO, and then the next week is a holiday, and i'm not sure why they left me off on the 23rd. Ohwell...

Career Appearences
-Referee: 112
-Assistant: 39
 

Klobb

Starting XI
Hmm, ill have to start watching referrees during matches to figure out this phenomon...btw how many cards of any kind have u given out during ur ref career?
 

Psyatika

Reserve Team
I've given out 25 yellow cards in 112 games, as of the matches i've posted. When i finish posting the matches from this past week it'll be 28 i believe, in 120 games. Most of those cards have been at the Men's Amateur Level, although i have given 2 yellow cards at the U14 level, and maybe 5 at the U19 level.

I've given 5 straight Red cards, all except for one were in Men's Amateur, and just one at U19 level. I've only shown a second yellow card to one person in my career, and it was on a really strange technicality where i had to show two yellow cards back to back and send him off. I warned the guy that one more problem with him was going to lead to a yellow card. On the next play, he spiked the ball with his fist while it was in the air. I gave him the yellow card that i promised him for persistent infringement, and then gave him another caution because the handball was bad enough for a yellow card by itself.
 

10Ruud

Starting XI
looks like the at the U19 level they have more smarts.....doesnt seem like your card them as much....I thought it would be the other way around.
 

Psyatika

Reserve Team
Almost caught up!

3 April 2006
Rutgers Intramural Soccer League, matchday 3. Supposed to have four matches, but one team didn't show up, so we only had three games. During the time slot for the game that was forfeited, the team that did turn up wanted to play anyway, so they played a pick-up game with whomever wanted to play against them. I decided that this would be a good time to see what my assistant could do. I asked him to take the centre for this game, and i took a flag and ran the line. I was hoping that 1) he could get some experience at this level, 2) i could show him what he more or less should be doing when acting as AR, and 3) i could determine how fit he would be to be the centre for future games in this league.

Well, on the bright side, all three goals were accomplished. Unfortunately, my answer to goal number 3 is, "he isn't".

As much as the players moan during the games where i'm the centre, i don't think they realise just how much i do for them in this league. My ability as a referee allows them to play a high level of football without fear of being killed out there. If they had to play every game in this league without a referee, the level of play would diminish greatly, so that the players could ensure their own safety and so that they could keep control of the game themselves. With me in the middle, they know things can heat up, and that i'll keep control of the situation for them. This match was a clear example of that.

Right away, first challenge of the match, right next to the centre ref (which, again, is not me; i'm AR in this match, although in my statistics i do not count this match). Player in White goes right through his opponent in Red. No call. I don't wave the flag, because it was right next to the ref.

Next challenge, same thing. This time i raise the flag, even though it's on the ref's side. At this point i have determined that the players are clearly testing the new official. I decide that i am going to be very strict with the flag with the hope that the ref will call fouls for the same types of things i call fouls for.

A little while later, and a player bends his body, reaches out near the ground, and blocks the ball on a pass with his hand. NO call!!! I raise the flag, the ref blows the whistle, and i gesture to my pocket to let him know that i think it should be a caution. Ref gestures back to me that he doesn't have a yellow card. Whatever, this match doesn't count anyway, and he was only expecting to be an AR tonight, so i take a step onto the field, make eye contact with the player, and hold up MY yellow card to make it known that he is being cautioned by the centre ref. The cards are intended to be for communication purposes anyway, so i guess in theory it doesn't matter who holds it up, as long as it is clear to the player that he is playing with a caution.

Anyway, there is all kinds of holding, hard tackling, etc in this game, and lots of raised flags by me. At one point a player made a terrible sliding tackle that would even be a borderline send-off in an outdoor game. He already had a caution, so i gesture to the ref that i think he needs another caution and a sending-off. At the same time, i take a few steps onto the field in case there is retaliation. The ref comes to me and says he doesn't want to send off the player, so i just agree and go back to my position. Thank goodness the buzzer is going to sound any minute. When the buzzer does sound, i go to the score table, only to discover that the referee hasn't ended the game! He's adding time on! I run back to my proper position, and we play another 40 seconds or so. Oh dear...

The good news is, at least i could point to specific reasons now if i recommend he not take the centre again this season. Another plus: he now (sometimes) raises his flag high enough for me to see it, presumably because he saw how i raise the flag. And now that i see how he tends to make foul decisions, i might be less inclined to rely on him to make foul calls on his side when he is AR, which is what i had been doing. Overall, a decent learning experience. He doesn't cover the same range i do though (i ran from goal line to goal line as AR; he goes about halfway between the centre line and the goal line, in both directions). The saddest part about the match, though, is that this team won the Fair Play Award last year, and are currently leading the table this year! Although i guess, to their credit, it says a lot about them that they can adjust so quickly to the referee's style to suit their own needs for a match.

This post is fairly long, so i'll hold off on the one last day i need to update.

Career Appearences
-Referee: 115
-Assistant: 39
 

Psyatika

Reserve Team
10Ruud said:
looks like the at the U19 level they have more smarts.....doesnt seem like your card them as much....I thought it would be the other way around.
It might be because i am 22. To the U19s and below, i look old, so they respect me and don't do crazy things. I can usually just explain the rule i'm using, and they understand and stop arguing. They generally don't know the details of the rules too well anyway, so they just accept my decisions without complaining too much.

For the Men in the Amateur league, i'm either their age or younger, so they must think they can yell at me more. Plus, they think they know the rules better than i do (because playing for a long time makes you know the rules perfectly, but studying the rules and taking classes means nothing :rolleyes: ) Most of my cautions have been for dissent, or general behavioural problems, like timewasting. Also, most of my cautions were in that first season in the Men's league. I had never seen people yell at me so much for no reason, so i used the cards more instead of trying to reason with them. I have a much higher tolerance now, and only give a yellow card for dissent if the player won't leave me alone. Otherwise i let players vent their problems with me if they think i am wrong. I quickly explain why i think i'm right, and i explain that i will not change my decision, and usually that's enough to put an end to it.
 

Klobb

Starting XI
Do you have some sort of ref committee for the rutgers league or its just you and you keep track of all the fouls etc..
 

Psyatika

Reserve Team
gamerguy350 said:
You sound like a great ref, wish you could ref my games.

I might try it out next season, sounds like fun.
You definitely should, and if you need information about getting started, click the RefPlanet link in my sig.
Klobb said:
Do you have some sort of ref committee for the rutgers league or its just you and you keep track of all the fouls etc..
It's just me and the assistant guy, who is not registered as a referee. I keep handle everything (including the website) and submit reports to the admin.


Update coming soon!
 

Psyatika

Reserve Team
Alright, quite a bit to cover, so i'll just continue to chip away at it all.

5 April 2006
Rutgers Intramural Soccer League, Matchday 4. One game was cancelled once again, and apparently one of the teams will not be able to field enough players to play the rest of their games. Waste of my time...

Anyway, during one of the games, a foul occured, but the ball went straight to an open attacker who started advancing on the goal. Easy call, just yell out "Advantage, Play On!" and get on with the game.

Literally three seconds after i had called out advantage, and the attackers were getting ready to put a shot on goal, my now imfamous assistant decided it would be a good idea to randomly blow his whistle (which he keeps handy for some reason!) for the foul i never called. Some of the players stopped for the AR's whistle ("AR's whistle" is a term i never want to write again), and some players kept playing because they knew it wasn't my whistle. So i blew my whistle and gave a dropped ball, which the defence just let the attack have. ARGH! I have told him every day to never blow the whistle and just use the flag to get my attention, and he still doesn't get it! On the bright side, the players tore him a new one about blowing the whistle, since he's not the referee, so maybe if he won't listen to me, he'll listen to them. I conveniently didn't hear the players' abuse just this one time.

On another note, today i set my record for cards shown in a day, giving 4 cautions in my three games. Don't worry, this record doesn't last long...

Career Appearences
-Referee: 118
-Assistant: 39
 

Psyatika

Reserve Team
10 April 2006
I have always had a pilonidal cyst at the base of my spine. Over this weekend, it became infected and grow to 8cm in diameter. I would end up having sugery (the first of two) on the 14th, but in the meantime, i did my games on the 10th injured. I was able to stand, and able to run, so i put the pain aside and did my games.

Oh dear...what a first game i ended up with! The game was between the teams tied for first and second places in the league. We'll call it White v. Black.

The match was rather physical from the start, and i was calling quite a bit of fouls. I specifically warned one player, White's captain, for his manner of play. Other than that, the first half was uneventful.

The second half, on the other hand, was INSANE! First of all, Black was on attack, outside of the penalty area. White commits a foul, so i make the call. I don't know why, but for some reason, the White goalkeeper left his goal to argue the call (only about 6 metres, but in an indoor game i suppose that's quite a bit). At pretty much the same time, Black put the ball down on the exact spot where i pointed for the position of he foul and took a fairly quick restart (about four seconds between my whistle and the restart. The goalkeeper realised what was going on and ran back toward his goal (about 6 metres to cover, but he's not the most fit person on the pitch). Meanwhile, Black took two passes, and finally put the ball in the back of the net. I don't see any problems here, so i point to the centre.

Naturally, i get surrounded by White, so i just backpedal my way to the centre. Just before they take the kick-off, the captain picks up the ball and puts it (lightly, of course) into my chest. Then he says, "Thank you very much, your team won." I assume he was being sarcastic. In any case, i sent him off.

The team decided they would follow the captain's lead and walk off the pitch. One player gave me the middle finger, so i went ahead and sent him off. Then another player decided to scream at me and curse me out for a good 45 seconds. I just stood there and took it, and when he was done, i sent him off. He then decided he wasn't finished and continuted screaming at me, including asking me to "come outside" with him, which i guess means he wants me to have my allergies. To be fair though, he was doing it while walking over to get his belongings and leave, so i can't complain too much.

This situation was getting annoying, so i decided to talk to the team that just scored. I told them that i want the game to continue, and asked if they would be upset if i disallowed the goal and gave a dropped ball (i wasn't sure if i could erase all the post-free kick activity and give the same free kick, so i figured the dropped ball on the 6m line would be sufficient. Keep in mind this is indoor, so the 6m line is not the same as the edge of the 6 yard box in outdoor). Strangely enough, they actually agreed. It helped that they saw me send off three players (although one was a substitute).

So we're about to get started again, and only 4 minutes to add on! When Black saw four White players line up (six players per team, so they were expecting three), they started arguing with the White players. Somehow this arguement moved from the spot of the dropped ball to the centre circle. I told the teams, "if we don't start in two minutes, this match is over." Surely enough, two minutes later, order could not be restored, and the next match had to start in about ten minutes. I gave up, re-allowed the goal (as play STILL had not restarted), walked to the centre circle, told the teams there would be a kick-off, let them argue for another 5 seconds, and blew the whistle and put an end to this debacle. Three yellow cards (two had nothing to do with this incident, the third was for the White goalkeeper, as he completely left the gym and never came back, whereas his teammate only left the field, and briefly at that), three red cards, and an unfinished game.

The league administrator ultimately let the result stand at 1-0, and all the statistics in the match were allowed to count. Only one match bans were given to the sent-off players. But anyway...ARGH!

Fortunately, the other two matches were nice and quiet.

Career Appearences
-Referee: 121
-Assistant: 39
 

Psyatika

Reserve Team
Quite unnecessary i know, but here is a diagramme of what happened:

 


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