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Trying To Cut My GF Loose.

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Voltaic Borusse

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My infatuation for my GF has run its course after 1 year and a few months. I thought it was love in the beginning, but for the past few months I realized that it wasn't. I've basically lost all interest in her and find myself avoiding her phone calls and making excuses as to why I can't see/spend time with her. I can't lead her on anymore.

I've never formally broken up with a girl, so this is going to be difficult. How do you do it? The worst part is, she is blind and thinks the relationship is going along just fine.
 
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Mutt

Yahoo Pool King
omg...
just broke up with mine of 3 + years yesterday, exactly same thing.
she was blind, i wasnt having fun.

just had to go cold turkey, and say thats it. over.
sucks but oh well.

she still thinks ill change my mind. which sucks caus im not going to.
 
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Voltaic Borusse

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Yeah, it's no fun. Plus, she's 27 and I'm only 22. It was nice at first, but... **** this. At times I feel like I'm dating a mom. I need a girl closer to my age or a bit younger who I can cultivate and share new experiences with. Not somebody who has already been there and done that. And besides, I'm looking to start a new life up north in Jersey City.
 
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didy

Red Card - 1-12-08 - Posting pornographic material
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Bastard is living our fantasy and he is blowing it.

Just tell her you converted to a some religion and you can no longer see her or your going to jail in a few days, she wouldn't really wanna have anything to do with you.
 
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rpvankasteren

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didy, SG has converted to a some religion and it can no longer see you or it's going to jail in a few days, you wouldn't really wanna have anything to do with it.
 
ShiftyPowers

ShiftyPowers

Make America Great Again
[Idiotic ramblings....]

So yeah.... be the one who dumps, not the dumpee. Getting dumped is a terrible thing to deal with, even if you know in the long run the relationship wouldn't have worked out. After the fact you will convince yourself of the opposite and hate the rejection. It's much easier to just DTMA (dump the mother****er already), and move on.
 
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didy

Red Card - 1-12-08 - Posting pornographic material
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rpvankasteren;2410193 said:
didy, SG has converted to a some religion and it can no longer see you or it's going to jail in a few days, you wouldn't really wanna have anything to do with it.
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Your sister took it really well when I told her.... haven't seen the bitch since :Carlos*o:
 
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Bobby

The Legend
Voltaic Borusse;2410121 said:
Yeah, it's no fun. Plus, she's 27 and I'm only 22. It was nice at first, but... **** this. At times I feel like I'm dating a mom. I need a girl closer to my age or a bit younger who I can cultivate and share new experiences with. Not somebody who has already been there and done that. And besides, I'm looking to start a new life up north in Jersey City.
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Going from Tampa to Jersey City is like going from a Ferrari to a Dodge Colt. Jesus, what is wrong with you?
 
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Jaboldinho

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didy;2410392 said:
Your sister took it really well when I told her.... haven't seen the bitch since :Carlos*o:
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I'm so happy you told her that SG has converted in to some religion, now she(?) must feel good that she knows it so she doesn't have to keep guessing. :-paul:
 
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MaestroZidane

YELLOW CARD: Untrustworthy
Were here is one for you guys..

I find mysfelf in the same situation, the only problem is that I have been with my GF for almost 6+ years. Every single person in her family knows me, I am engage to her and although I care for her, what I once felt for her is no longer there. SHe still thinks everything is fine when it is anything but, at least for me.

Ohh!! and wanna know what the kicker is?? Her cousin whom I have known since I met my GF, just told me she Loves me. It has been a year since we have been having friendly conversations that always go beyond friendly -nothing physical though, just emotional- and guess what?? she too just got engaged...

SO now I must decide what to do and when to do it. SHe is to be married on december, so I have less than a month to act. But The consequences will be very big because it is my GF cousin.. I feel I have a chance with her, since the feeling is mutual between us..... But like chess, my move must be quick and must be a game winner.... the only thing that comes to mind though...










That I marry her instead.....



any suggestions??
 
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Tom

That Nice Guy
Dave, why on earth did you delete that post (H)!

Hahaha. Anyway, Mano, i'd just tell her straight out, explain to her why you're doing it and try not to hurt her. Hard, but the sooner the better.
 
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