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friend with shieness issues

O-car

Starting XI
ok, I have this friend who is a great guy, but he can be incredebly shy. he doesn´t go to parties becouse of this, and has problem socialising with people, especially when it comes to talking to girls. what advice can I give him, how can he get more self confidence??
 

Mutt

Yahoo Pool King
get some alcohol in him... i was very much the same... infact im 18... never been to pub or club or party until earlier this year... then i went with good mates... caus i knew theyd stand there and talk to me and **** so i wasnt left alone... then i had a few beers in me and some bourban and i was fine... chatted up 8 diff chicks... now its almost a nightly thing... (H) (H) :rockman: :hump:
 

Arjun_soccerval

Club Supporter
lol i went thru the same phase and i now im public speaker in skool, just tell ur friend to adopt an i dont give a **** attitude lol
 

ShearerM4

Fan Favourite
Originally posted by Arjun_soccerval
lol i went thru the same phase and i now im public speaker in skool, just tell ur friend to adopt an i dont give a **** attitude lol
yeah that's the key really. Stop building things up like its the end of the world... sometimes its hard ...

otherwise alcohol will take some of the shyness away for sure.
 

-William-

Starting XI
Im pretty shy myself, but I always go to parties and pubs, and have a great time...so just tell him that he is going to lose great parts of hes adolescence or just take him there and get him drunk :p
 

yim87

Senior Squad
i'm not good with strangers, but i love socialising with present friends.. but i have a hard time making new friends..
 
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Callan

Guest
haha. Its weird because none of my friends are shy :confused: even the shyest one talks to everyone but is quieter than the rest, and she has a boyfriend. And there isn't really any shy guy friends... the shyest one is just a bit quieter but he talks to everyone still... and he has a girlfriend as well. lol. :confused:
 
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Callan

Guest
Originally posted by Paul
Callan is going to be on the Secret Life Of Us :( :D :hump:

lmao, no. :)

I cannot stand that show! And all the other australian shows like it. :)
 


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