Seeking advice. 'bout a chick

[O-car]

I am so gonna get flamed here, but I don't care.
The thing is, that there's this girl at my school, and we have gym class together. This girl really is beautifull. Her face, the body, everything. I have had a crush on her since last year when we shared another class together, and I feel I should give it a go and go talk to her. about time some might say. I feel like if I don't, it's gonna haunt me forever. my problem however is, since I don't know her, all I know is her name, I don't know what to say. So I won't look like a complete idiot, I was wondering if someone could give me some advice on how to go about it? Thanks in advance

 

[#1 Stunna]

U said u guys had class last year. Start off with a "Hey, werent u in my whatever class?" And work from there, small talk at first, then it'll jsut come to u what to say.

 

[-William-]

If you want some real help you have to post a picture of her. . .

 

[O-car]

Don't have one, and yeh, like that's gonna happen

 

[Filipower]

small talk is the way...go for the eye contact too first..

 

[IceBlu]

small talk is the way...go for the eye contact too first..

err no. You might end up being the creepy guy who stares.

Go with what stunna said .. say "Well I've been feeling a little weird about being in a lot of classes together with you but somehow we never spoke. Just thought I'd say hey... so.. Hey!"

be a little goofy... you don't need to be all suave and slick. Girls are flattered if they see a few nerves. If you stumble and miss a word or two don't let it bother you.

The longer you let it go the harder its going to be to finally talk to her.

 

[Jambo Den]

I say you get yourself a guy. Seems it's the in thing these days!

 

[Hopeunited]

haha Ice ur like a social guru... ur all over the place giving ace advices!

 

[ShiftyPowers]

IceBlu: The only member under 22 in a long term relationship.

Quite an accomplishment, we have how many members?

 

[Gerrard 17]

err no. You might end up being the creepy guy who stares.

But there's a difference between staring, and giving quick seductive looks.

A lot of the times you can tell if a girls feelin you just by the way she looks at you.

 

[IceBlu]

true true BUT the key here is that it isn't the first time he is seeing her. I'm sure she recognizes him also. It would be strange if he starts giving her glances all of a sudden...

Inviting, lingering looks in a bar do work very well though

 

[mika]

A lot of the times you can tell if a girls feelin you just by the way she looks at you.

exactly

but it is too late now cause she already seen you

you have to remember how she looked at you the first ever time you make eye contact with her

but you probably don't so that's already f*cked, the only thing you can do is get her with your personality

cause girls care more about the way you talk, act, and the energy they are feeling from you

so you have to have a conversation with her and then you will be able to tell if she likes you

 

[mika]

but then still if she likes you she is suppose to give you looks even if it is 100th time seeing you

so just see when she is looking at you, look at her back, observe her reaction

 

[modena_10]

the first time you talk to her is gonna be awkward anyway you put it, but it has to be done, so keep it short and simple.

you have to find something in common with her and since the only human contact you have had is being in the same class, it is the obvious ice breaker. letting it wait this long will make it harder but better late than never.

go with what ice said, or something to that affect. but don't let it linger into the awkward silence. like i said keep it short and simple and think of ways to leave options open for another conversation.

 

[ShiftyPowers]

I say you should just go up to her, break the ice with a joke, and then just go balls out "you know, this is really embarassing for me, but I've had a crush on you since we were in that class together, and I was wondering if you wanted to hang out sometime."

 

[Virgo]

I say you should just go up to her, break the ice with a joke, and then just go balls out "you know, this is really embarassing for me, but I've had a crush on you since we were in that class together, and I was wondering if you wanted to hang out sometime."

naw, that tends to scare the sh*t out of broads, at least here. They don't like to feel pressured. Maybe it's different over there, but it's much easier to be her friend and suddenly have your tongue down her throat than going full frontal on the first contact.

 

[Lean]

Yea exactly. That might just sound too much out of the blue for her. I agree with Virgo, try to get a decent friendship thing going, then as stuff evolve just tell the lady what you feel.

 

[Filipower]

You might end up being the creepy guy who stares.

true, although i wasn't exactly telling him to stalk her and always stare for hours at her, but the eye contact and a smile might help, then the conversation, that's all i was sayin

 

[Andrejs]

try to get a decent friendship thing going, then as stuff evolve just tell the lady what you feel.

I did it that way too, I must say, it's better than just drooling over her as you can actually talk to her (!). But there could still be some problems and I have one, we have been really good friends for almost 4 months now and I still can't tell her about my feelings because now I'm affraid that doing so could not only smash my hopes with getting together with her, but it could also end our friendship (:/)

So, O-car, good luck with the girl and if it makes you feel better, there are people (like me) that are even more inept when it comes to relationships

 

[Virgo]

you don't tell her your feelings argh...

you ask her out, have a romantic dinner, make her laugh, then afterwards take a walk on the riverside or somewhere nice and you kiss her. That's what the sissy bitches like and the best way to do it.