leungtl;3387525 said:I have a question RC: Do you see yourself as completely not at fault here? Or do you think that some of your replies might "add fuel to the fire", so to speak?
no i am not saying i am not at partial fault here, i am because i do reply to the comments making it worse.
leungtl;3387525 said:I think (from a fairly neutral perspective) that the main reason members here dislike your posting is because you don't back your arguments up with facts like normal people do in a discussion. And when they call you out on it, you start flinging insults that are completely disproportionate to what the original member said. Just look at that reply you wrote to Andrei that I quoted earlier in the thread. Does that seem like an acceptable response to you?
i don't remember what you quoted me on earlier, but i came in and posted what i thought could have happened with Sir_Didier_Drogba, wasn't an opinion wasn't a fact and who stirred up the pot - Andrei.
my intention was to post and be done but of coarse someone had to say something stupid that really wasn't called for and just because he says he was joking doesn't mean he was, no different then this supposed 2nd account and it being some guy rob or bernard or who knows who next (one of the children i am sure will create someone new).
leungtl;3387525 said:Not being good with words is fine - we are a global forum after all and the fact that English is your native language already puts you in a better position than most. But please, stop seeing yourself as the victim, that members "use clever wording to hide their actual feeling" (How do you know this? Honestly?) and that everyone has a personal vendetta against regularcat.
may not be a vendetta but many have stated they don't care for me which is fine, i have no issue with that but i do have an issue with being attacked every time i post due to the fact they dislike me, which is where the problems start, they can't simply read the post and say i disagree like alex does or say nothing, they starting talking shit or say some slick shit they think you won't pick up on.
leungtl;3387525 said:I guarantee you that if you start posting your opinions (which we both know are generally quite polarising) but back them up with solid facts, then we'll be able to have a better forum experience for everyone.
...or you could just disregard this advice like you did Alex's and assume I'm personally out to get you too. The ball is in your court.
i don't think that alex or you are out to get me but i do feel if alex was tired of this happening in every thread he should have said something earlier, it's like waiting for a small trash can fire to engulf the entire planet then calling the fire department.
the problem is alex has repeatedly called me out without saying anything to anyone else as the one as if i am posting back and forth with myself, same as Sir_Didier_Drogba, he thinks it's okay for whoever to say whatever to me and it is fine and if i say something i am an idiot and blah, blah, blah which is basically all i get from his posts.