sexuality: serious thread

[henry#14]

He's bisexual man.

 

[sportgaming]

i had my gay moments when I was 14,15, 16. (and 17, shhh!)


I absolutely have no problems with gay ppl unless they like me and if they do, I just stay away from them . I've only met a gay once and he was pretty cool.


sorry sportsgaming, i dont wanna read the whole thread: are you or not gay?

as has been said above


the strict answer is no i am not gay

but i am bi-sexual, and am currently in a relationship with a guy

 

[Mutt]

is the guy your with gay or bi? ...

 

[-William-]

I absolutely have no problems with gay ppl unless they like me and if they do, I just stay away from them . I've only met a gay once and he was pretty cool.

Carlitos?


Well I dont hate anyone for being gay or bi or whatever, I just find it really annoying if some gay/bi guy is staring at me, I feel like beating him up

And yea, I also hate those obnoxious gay ppl that change the way they talk to be gay-er. Something else I gotta say, well I don't think I'd be able to have a gay friend, I dunno it would be too weird I would be always thinking if he's looking at me or something. Something else that I find very unconfortable is sleeping in the same room with a gay guy, like if a friend of yours is sleeping over and you know he's straight then you know he wont try anything gay, but if it's a gay guy then you never know

 

[JTNY]

Gay, Straight who cares.


As long as you are not English or French.

England 3/19 Cop that Vaughan!

 

[Tom]

England 3/19 Cop that Vaughan!

I'm pretty sure we'll settle for a tie haha

TROD.

 

[hanek45]

Carlitos?


Well I dont hate anyone for being gay or bi or whatever, I just find it really annoying if some gay/bi guy is staring at me, I feel like beating him up

And yea, I also hate those obnoxious gay ppl that change the way they talk to be gay-er. Something else I gotta say, well I don't think I'd be able to have a gay friend, I dunno it would be too weird I would be always thinking if he's looking at me or something. Something else that I find very unconfortable is sleeping in the same room with a gay guy, like if a friend of yours is sleeping over and you know he's straight then you know he wont try anything gay, but if it's a gay guy then you never know

haha, no, not carlitos..
now that you've mentioned it, make it two..



sportsgaming, i admire you for admitting this kinda s

no-one can blame someone else for liking the opposite sex (or both) since no-one can blame me for liking (LOVING!!!!!!!!) women. so yea..
youre cool man

please don't take a look at my pic in the members photo thread or else you'll fall in love..

 

[Tom]

sportsgaming

sportgaming or Steven

TROD.

 

[Will]

The problem with gays is that they don't seem to be sure whether they want to be normal or different and slightly special. This thread is a prime example of this. There was no need for Steven to tell us he was gay, none of us cared. Once people started insulting him because of his sexuality, he came back at them with the fact he couldn't help it because gays are born gay and it's not a choice they make and therefore they are perfectly normal. If that is the case, why did he make the thread in the first place? I don't feel the need to make a thread declaring that I'm heterosexual and, as I was also born that way, it is surely just as normal as Steven being homosexual?
Another recent example that comes to mind is the gay pride march that took place in London on Saturday. What is the need for an event like that if gays are happy that they are normal? There would never be a heterosexual march.

It is things like this, when gays set themselves out from straight people, that trouble starts and there is, in my opinion, no need for this to happen. If gays really don't want the bother of people insulting them then maybe they should all start acting more normal otherwise I feel they deserve all the insults they get. People might not like that, but I doubt many could deny that there isn't at least some truth in what I've said.

 

[sportgaming]

The problem with gays is that they don't seem to be sure whether they want to be normal or different and slightly special. This thread is a prime example of this. There was no need for Steven to tell us he was gay, none of us cared. Once people started insulting him because of his sexuality, he came back at them with the fact he couldn't help it because gays are born gay and it's not a choice they make and therefore they are perfectly normal. If that is the case, why did he make the thread in the first place? I don't feel the need to make a thread declaring that I'm heterosexual and, as I was also born that way, it is surely just as normal as Steven being homosexual?

1st ofall,once again I am bi, not gay

however if you look backover the history of the thread, it is made clear from the very 1st post, that i did not make this thread it tell people that i am bi, as you said, there is no reason for ne to tell people that


however i did include the fact in the 1st post to outline the fcat that once people know that I am not straight i do get treated differently where football is concerned


that was the topic of the thread, not my sexuality orcoming out to people around here

I an quie happyto discuss these thingsm but I do not feel the need to justify my decsiions about me life on a football forum



And trod, my boyfriend is gay, but has as open mind about all sexualities, unlike most of the world, whatever their sexuality may be

 

[sportgaming]

Carlitos?


Well I dont hate anyone for being gay or bi or whatever, I just find it really annoying if some gay/bi guy is staring at me, I feel like beating him up

And yea, I also hate those obnoxious gay ppl that change the way they talk to be gay-er. Something else I gotta say, well I don't think I'd be able to have a gay friend, I dunno it would be too weird I would be always thinking if he's looking at me or something. Something else that I find very unconfortable is sleeping in the same room with a gay guy, like if a friend of yours is sleeping over and you know he's straight then you know he wont try anything gay, but if it's a gay guy then you never know

thats a fair point, and my mates used to feel exactly the same way

however the changes occur when you already know the person and are already good friend with them

would knbowibg that they can be attracted to certain guys really worry you that much?? The fact that you are already friends with them, does not mean that they are more likely to want to do anything with you, so why should it worry you being friends with them

 

[Voltaic Borusse]

Stand up everybody, this is your life
Let me take u to another world, let me take u tonight
U don't need no money, u don't need no clothes
The Second Coming, anything goes
Sexuality is all u'll ever need
Sexuality -- let your body be free

C'mon everybody, yeah, this is your life
I'm talking about a revolution we gotta organize
We don't need no segregation, we don't need no race
New age revelation, I think we got a case

I'm OK as long as u are here with me
Sexuality is all we ever need

Reproduction of a new breed -- Leaders, Stand Up, Organize
Reproduction of a new breed -- Leaders, Stand Up, Organize
Reproduction of a new breed -- Leaders, Stand Up, Organize

Everybody...

Reproduction of a new breed -- Leaders, Stand Up, Organize

One time say...

Reproduction of a new breed -- Leaders, Stand Up, Organize
Reproduction of a new breed -- Leaders, Stand Up, Organize

We live in a world overrun by tourists
Tourists -- 89 flowers on their back...inventors of the Accu-Carlos
They look at life through a pocket camera... What? No flash again?
They're all a bunch of double drags who teach their kids that Love is bad
Half of the staff of their brain is on vacation

Mama, are u listening?

We need a new breed -- Leaders, Stand Up, Organize
Don't let your children watch television until they know how to read
Or else all they'll know how to do is cuss, fight and breed
No child is bad from the beginning... they only imitate their atmosphere
If they're in the company of tourists, alcohol and US history
What's to be expected is 3 minus 3... absolutely nothing

Stand Up, Organize
We need a new breed...Leaders, Stand Up, Organize
I wanna be in the new breed, Stand up, Organize
Sexuality is all I'll ever need
Sexuality, I'm gonna let my body be free
Sexuality is all I'll ever need
Sexuality, I'm gonna let my body be free

Sexuality

 

[Ubik Valis]

I'm assuming that that's not a Mastodon/Slipknot/Meshuggah song.

 

[PhiLLer]

It's funny how many people have loads of gay friends all of a sudden

 

[Stotty]

will you be my gay friend phil?

 

[Ubik Valis]

I'm sure you have enough gay friends in the RLA.

 

[Stotty]

looks like someone is upset cos he doesn't have an anti-dragan sig

 

[Will]

1st ofall,once again I am bi, not gay

Fine, go through my post and replace everwhere I've referred to you as gay to bi.

however if you look backover the history of the thread, it is made clear from the very 1st post, that i did not make this thread it tell people that i am bi, as you said, there is no reason for ne to tell people that. however i did include the fact in the 1st post to outline the fcat that once people know that I am not straight i do get treated differently where football is concerned

I still stand by what I said that the difference in treatment is because gays/bis make too much of an issue over their sexuality.

that was the topic of the thread, not my sexuality orcoming out to people around here

But by making the thread that is what you did and therefore you surely should have to accept that you may have to face negative comments for doing so.

I an quie happyto discuss these thingsm but I do not feel the need to justify my decsiions about me life on a football forum

I'm also quite happy to discuss my heterosexuality but I'm not going to, which is basically the point I was making, you either consider yourself different in which case you take the things that come with being different or you consider yourself normal in which case you shut up.

 

[Run DMB]

I couldn't be arsed to read the whole thread so I don't know if this has been mentioned, but the 10% gay statistic was derived from Alfred Kinsey's flawed research back in the 50's. Resent studies have shown much lower percentages. It can be kind of a grey area anyway - a lot of people may have had some sort of homosexual experience but not consider themselves homosexual.

 

[itsbeenpickedup]

I don't understand why anyone would have any ill feeling towards gays/bis in general. I mean personally I would find being gay disgusting, hence me being straight, but why the hell would that mean I hated gays? It's the same as me finding a type of food I find disgusting to eat then hating everyone who eats it. I do find campness pretty annoying, and I wouldn't befriend a stereotypical gay that you see on TV, but that's because they act like idiots. but I had an English teacher who was gay and acted like a normal guy, and a history teacher who was married with kids, but was the most gay guy you could ever meet (maybe he was in denial, or maybe you can be camp and not gay).