jschuck12001
Senior Squad
Zlatan;3377131 said:It's not jealousy, it's just that when you agree to go into a relationship with somebody you basically agree to be faithful. You can deny it all you want, but a romantic relationship brings responsibilities. It's true that this is based on morals created by human beings, but these morals are the very thing that make a relationship. We could be like animals and reproduce with everyone we meet, but civilization has gotten us to a point where you are expected to be faithful to your partner. If you can't be faithful, you shouldn't be in that relation in the first place and therefore make an end to it. If you're in a point in your life where you just want to go out and have sex with all kinds of girls, you shouldn't be in a relationship you should just be single. Being in a relationship with one girl, while you want to have sex with all kinds of girls can actually form a restraint than. Ending the relationship could than provide a lot of freedom and relieve to both parties. She, because she isn't cheated on anymore, and he, because he can do what he wants to do at this point of his life. Again I say this only on basis of personal experience and the information provided.
I think you nailed it! Any of us who have been Mr A or know a Mr A are well aware Mr A doesn't want to be with this girl so why put yourself through this hidden 2nd life he leads. He definitely cant tell her because anyone here who has been through this knows that even if she stays with him she will never trust him again and they will either break up or stay together and be miserable. I don't know how long he has been with this girl as it just says " a long time". A long time could be a year if you make the wrong decision or it could be 6 years like Alex. Any way you look at it an addictive personality is not a good ingredient for a long term relationship.