The TOTALLY Mature Sex Thread

[Sir Calumn]

Yet you're the one aware of the homosexual link.

Nah when I **** men it's bareback or nothing

 

[$teauA]

Uhhhhhhh, pull out method? At least I did back when I had sex.



Yeah, you're eye to brown-eye with that thing. Anyway, 69ing is stupid. Really awkward to get into and stay in position. Do it to try it, for sure, but zero replay value IMO.

Totally agree. Tried it once just for s*its and giggles.

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My girl is on the pill and as others have said there is always this underlying uneasiness (we don't use condoms) but as long as she takes it every day it's all good (a phone alarm will do wonders).

 

[ShiftyPowers]

I thought the same, but I'd rather stop-start, since we both prefer no condom. No condom is more stimulating for the girl. Unless you want to last longer for a reason other than getting her to orgasm, in which case, nevermind.

Um... yeah, personal pride. I actually have the ability to not have a refractory period, but I'd still rather use a condom than deal with the personal shame of busting in 30 seconds.

P.S. This is really only dealing with rawdogging someone new while sober. If it's a relationship that's been going for awhile this is much less of a problem. And if I'm drunk then I have the exact opposite problem and I've faked orgasms (just throw out the condom real quick).

Anyway, girls these days don't seem to insist on condoms. One girl I got on about a year ago did and I gained a huge respect for her; too bad she moved to Kentucky like 2 weeks later.

 

[Alex]

I'd always worry if a girl I hooked up with didn't ask for a condom. Who knows what has been in there.

If I'm drinking I can occasionally have condoms take me too far. Rather than slowing me down, they can make me go down. Usually if that's the case, it just takes a bit of play and I'm away again....or I'm drunk enough to not be bothered.

 

[1966+2006]

A friend of mine actually did the pull out method and then had "the scare". It wasn't resolved until after 3 months. That pretty much scarred his sexual activity for life.

Oh, and before people comment on the "a friend of mine" thing, I've had "the scare", as well, though it was resolved after a day.

 

[Mandieta6]

Um... yeah, personal pride. I actually have the ability to not have a refractory period, but I'd still rather use a condom than deal with the personal shame of busting in 30 seconds.

P.S. This is really only dealing with rawdogging someone new while sober. If it's a relationship that's been going for awhile this is much less of a problem. And if I'm drunk then I have the exact opposite problem and I've faked orgasms (just throw out the condom real quick).

Anyway, girls these days don't seem to insist on condoms. One girl I got on about a year ago did and I gained a huge respect for her; too bad she moved to Kentucky like 2 weeks later.

I haven't had much problems without condoms, sometimes I'll finish quicker than I'd like to, sometimes I take too long and most of the time it's in between, but while I get the personal pride thing, I don't get why that is. Surely busting in 5 minutes and getting her to orgasm is better than 30 without it?

 

[Alex]

Definitely Az. Especially if it's someone you'll see more than once.

Not so much about time, but relative time to the girl?

 

[Mandieta6]

What?

 

[ShiftyPowers]

Well since most girls can't have orgasms from vaginal sex alone, although still find it pleasurable, I'm just trying to hold out as long as I can for her benefit. They need time to warm up, and busting in 2 minutes is usually met with disappointment (at best).

 

[Keegan]

I'm going to disagree with your post from a year ago Keegan. If it's 69, then your mouth is at her cünt, so your eyes aren't far from her arsê.

Congratulations! How was it, apart from the whole "eye to brown-eye" thing?

 

[Sepak]

I don't have nearly enough sexual experience to contribute to this thread, but the reading's been great. you guys are my heroes.

I second that.

 

[kp41]

I don't see a point in using condoms when having sex with your girlfriend or someone you know, just don't pull the trigger inside.

Btw, need some advise here, how to handle women talking during the sex? that's so annoying ...

 

[MaestroZidane]

Even if you don't release, there's still the chance of pregnancy. If she's o'k with taking the pill the next day, then it's all good.

What does she talk about? Her day? Never has that problem but saw it in an Amateur porn video. I would find it annoying and just stop, or stick it in her mouth to shut her up.

 

[kp41]

haha, talking about her day would be disastrous ... basically, it's the commentary of the ongoing sex ... its annoying and sometimes funny ... I like the natural noise and sound of the thing ... not color commentary. Lool, I can't stick it in her mouth because it's busy somewhere else ... I normally use my fingers to keep her busy, but that doesn't work in all positions and she doesn't like it either ... my ex was exactly opposite ... quiet closed eyes the whole time ...

 

[Mandieta6]

I think the pul-back nethod or whatever it's called is too risjy for my taste. I would rather not have to keep thinking about pulling out and just enjoy it and relax, even if it is with a condom.

I don't get talking through it but maybe just tell her it doesn't turn you on? Nicely, of course.

 

[Mandieta6]

Also, quit writing like xifio.

 

[Back Door Skip]

You need a new phone.

 

[Keegan]

Btw, need some advise here, how to handle women talking during the sex? that's so annoying ...

One method is to kiss her if the position allows, another is to go harder as soon as she starts talking - you either shut her up or finish, in which case that conversation ends anyway.

 

[Alex]

Why would you try to convince a girl to take the morning after pill all the time. Much easier to convince her to just get on the pill. It also controls her period

 

[Back Door Skip]

Some women get overly bitchy and/or fat on the pill, so that might be a reason why they might not use it.